Have you ever wondered how you know you’ve found the right one? Many people we’ve met have asked us this question. Of course, there is no one simple answer to this, but here comes a few signs that you’ve found the right one!
- You miss the person when he/she is not around.
As you and your partner are apart, you keep thinking of him/her, and miss him/her. You look forward to the next time you can be together, talk, hold hands and just spend time together. There is a sense of happiness and contentment when you are together.
- You are willing to improve things about yourself.
As you’ve met the right one, a desire to improve yourself usually increases by working on your flaws and weaknesses. When you work on yourself to improve things about yourself (such as controlling your anger, eliminate bad habits, or getting in shape), you signal to your partner that he/she is important to you/ Hence, it’ll strengthen your relationship. When you work on your flaws, your self-confidence will usually follow suit, and as such, your relationship will be positively affected.
- You and your partner pay attention to personal details.
As you sit at the restaurant, waiting for your partner to arrive, you know exactly what to order for him/her. And the same goes for your partner. You know each other’s likes, dislikes, and preferences. He/she doesn’t need to ask you whether you want milk or sugar in your coffee, or whether you want to watch the midnight soccer game; he/she already knows. A person in love pays attention to details. It signals that all about you is important.
- You feel that everything seems better when you spend time together.
When you are together, things are not as dull anymore. You can laugh together and you are able to brighten up each other’s day. Having fun together is one sign that you have found the right one. We strongly believe in the friendship aspect of a couple of relationships. As such, when you as a couple can affect each other positively and make things better for each other, it can be a sign that you’ve found the right one.
- You don’t feel jealous of others.
There is no jealousy in your relationship. You are neither jealous of other couples nor jealous of your partner talking with good-looking people of the opposite gender. Hence, there is a sense of security in your relationship. Usually, jealousy and suspicion come from being insecure as well as not being sure about the relationship. On the opposite, there is often a sense of security when both of you are committed to your relationship.
- You and your partner love each other for who you both are.
Sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference whether you’re just having a crush on someone or you really love the person. If you just have a crush, comparison with others is common and often leads to criticism and unrealistic expectations. Instead, when you truly love each other, you will be thankful for and celebrate everything about each other without any need to change each other.
- You can talk to each other about everything.
There is no fear to share anything. You and your partner can talk about anything and everything. There is no concern that your partner won’t listen to you. Rather, even if things are silly or embarrassing, you feel confident to talk about them. This is one strength of a committed relationship – a sense of safety in sharing things without fear of rejection or ridicule.
- You seldom argue.
As we meet couples that are dating and are already habitually arguing and quarreling after just weeks or months together, a red flag is raised. As such, if you have plenty of arguments so early in the relationship, it will probably escalate later into your relationship, and you should consider whether you are right for each other.
- You just know you have found the right one.
Sometimes, people explain it as they just know they have found the right one. “I just know he is the one” or “I have this sense that she and I are meant for each other” are examples of comments they share. Sounds easy, doesn’t it? Something inside of you tells you that you have found the person you desire to live the rest of your life with. Therefore, if you are ready to say no to all others and say yes to this person for life, then it is a sign you have found the right one.
- You can’t imagine living a life without him/her.
As you think about the future, you can’t even think about a life without the person. Instead, you can imagine yourself growing old together, seeing your children and grandchildren grow up and still have a happy life together.
Although, not everyone is lucky enough to find a partner that is perfectly compatible with them emotionally and physically. In case you are one such individual and you still want that intimacy in your life then Elite Companions Den Haag is perfect for you.